Well, it's hump day. So it's only fitting that I take a brief moment to address a wiener.
CNN reported on Monday that United States Representative Anthony Weiner, who is married, admitting to tweeting pictures of his thing to a woman (21yr old student) in Seattle, Washington, and how he also had 6 other online relationships (So far). They also quoted him saying: "The women are ‘generally women that I met on Facebook...[he] never met the women in person, and has never had sex outside his marriage." -- BULLSHIT.
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And to add insult to injury, one of the women rumored to be in an online relationship with Weiner is none other than a porn star, Ginger Lee.
I don’t believe him for one bit! He ain't touch any of them. Ha! So after “mistakenly” tweeting the lewd picture of your crotch, you want me to believe that your account was hacked??!?! – LIAR. No, let me tell you what happened: Yo punk ass realized you publically tweeted it as opposed to sending a DM (direct message). You tried to delete it, but remembered how nothing EVER disappears after it’s tweeted. So you conjure up this fake ass story about how your account was hacked. And FURTHERMORE! Why the hell would you do something like this via a social networking site? Did the constituents of New York really elect such a dumb ass! I mean come on! If you’re gonna start cheating on your wife, don’t do it through Twitter. Matter of fact, let me see your phone. If it wasn’t so wrong, man, then why lie in the first place?!?!? Because, Weiner, you knew sending pictures of your wiener to other women was DEAD wrong! Hey, Weiner! Do you and your wiener feel like a winner now?!?!? lol.
Ok, Imma chill, Shawty. But this whole sexting shit is getting out of hand. And the way that men and women view this technology intimacy is VERY different. Many men, like him, think that just because sexual exchanges are done verbally or virtually, not physically, it doesn’t constitute them cheating. For men, if he caught his wife sexting, he would be furious. It is damn near unforgivable!
“Are you having an affair?!?! How could you do this to me? What will my boys and colleagues think? I loved you.”
Now that the tables are turned, the man doing the sexting, is it cheating to him? No. It’s nothing.
“I didn’t cheat on you. I never met her! I love you, not her. I was just chatting with them girls, I was gon’ get right back.”
Women on the other hand view any sort of emotional and/or sexual interaction a betrayal like none other.
To us, no matter if intercourse has taken place or not, we consider acts such as this cheating. For our man to be a part of an emotional relationship with someone outside of our relationship it crushes us. Him buying the other woman flowers, wondering how she’s doing, spending quality time with her, saying or sending lewd mail, etc., etc. are building blocks to a new relationship, one where this other woman does something for you that apparently your Baby isn’t doing. Our man’s unhappy. It hurts EVEN more because 9 times out of 10, the man has never mentioned this problematic area of the relationship; maybe the wife wouldn’t mind sexting, role-playing, all that.
Aight, I’m pretty much tired of discussing another public figure’s sex life. If you‘re having problems distinguishing whether or not you’re in the right or wrong in dealing with members of the opposite sex, ask yourself this question:
Would you text it, post it online, or send it to someone with your significant other or spouse over your shoulder? If you answer yes, then it’s not infidelity. No, you say? Cheater! Cheater! Pumpkin eater!
I for one feel sorry that his Weiner’s wife has to go through this public scrutiny of her husband’s wiener, but on the other hand, I hope his list is longer than Tiger’s, Arnold Schwarzenegger wasn’t enough drama for me. lol
Welcome, Weiner, you have now officially joined the ranks of bipartisan stupid ass men.
Peace.
You sound really bitter towards men and I think it's a shame. Whatever happened to you while dating the men that "YOU" chose must have been tragic.
ReplyDeleteThe fact is that while I agree that this guy was a pure dumbass, please don't act as if women don't do this same stupid shit and lie about it. Please don't act like women are these innocent little creatures that are always being hurt by men. "Negro Please"
Sure what he did was wrong. Sure he was stupid for doing that to his wife and while I don't agree that everything he did crossed the line, most of it crossed that line by a mile.
However, men aren't solely responsible for cheating in america. Women cheat, lie and break-up just as many relationships if not more. By nature women seek out attention and emotional attachment and would probably cheat with any man that gave them that attention (if I go by your emotional definition of cheating).
When women and men understand that we are very different creatures and we operate in completely different fashions, the world would be a better place. If you want to understand that, I'd be happy to break it down for you later, but for right now, I'll just say this.
You really need to look at this situation for what it is. This was a pure ass-hole of a man that did something very stupid and got caught. This is not the role of every man in america nor are women immune from this type of stupidity.
That is all...!!